Comments on: Had Life Been So Easy! http://amitbhatia.in/2008/03/12/personal/had-life-been-so-easy/ to find everything is impermanent. Wed, 28 Jul 2010 15:06:01 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Gagan http://amitbhatia.in/2008/03/12/personal/had-life-been-so-easy/comment-page-1/#comment-144 Gagan Wed, 26 Mar 2008 06:03:51 +0000 http://amitbhatia.in/2008/03/12/personal/had-life-been-so-easy/#comment-144 Hi Bro. Thanks for your message. I agree with you, we cannot predict 100% about anyone, but we humans rely on the words spoken to us by the persons who are really close to us. For my answer, why me?, I assume its not possible to solve unless I meat again with people whom I think was wrong for them or they were wrong at that time, or mabee there might be certain mine major reasons or mabee they were facing some sort of problem. In the end who cares… I have enough power to take blames because I remember someone told me very earlier that I am brave and honest boy :) Well i am Zilch..., neutral and passing from zero emotions regarding my relation, I am not there now, I learned enjoying the burns :) however, my sweet, sour memories will remain forever as I told you, I can do anything but cannot forget, it’s not about particular relation, I remember everything.Everything I write in here is in general terms and from my past experiences, as you are sharing. Also I just want to thank you for hearing my stupid thoughts :) but you’ll be always appreciated for listening me. Bbye… take care. See yaaa Hi Bro.
Thanks for your message.

I agree with you, we cannot predict 100% about anyone, but we humans rely on the words spoken to us by the persons who are really close to us.

For my answer, why me?, I assume its not possible to solve unless I meat again with people whom I think was wrong for them or they were wrong at that time, or mabee there might be certain mine major reasons or mabee they were facing some sort of problem. In the end who cares… I have enough power to take blames because I remember someone told me very earlier that I am brave and honest boy :)

Well i am Zilch…, neutral and passing from zero emotions regarding my relation, I am not there now, I learned enjoying the burns :) however, my sweet, sour memories will remain forever as I told you, I can do anything but cannot forget, it’s not about particular relation, I remember everything.Everything I write in here is in general terms and from my past experiences, as you are sharing.

Also I just want to thank you for hearing my stupid thoughts :) but you’ll be always appreciated for listening me.

Bbye… take care. See yaaa

]]> By: Amit Bhatia http://amitbhatia.in/2008/03/12/personal/had-life-been-so-easy/comment-page-1/#comment-134 Amit Bhatia Thu, 20 Mar 2008 14:47:27 +0000 http://amitbhatia.in/2008/03/12/personal/had-life-been-so-easy/#comment-134 Nice to hear from you after a long time. No wonder, you are still passing through the same struggle. You know had life been so easy we all could have been living happily forever. The life has its own twist and turns teaching us new ways of life. Some call it a reality and some call it truth. This learning keeps on happening on various levels and at various times. Sometimes, learning work is painful when we have to work hard day and night to learn the new skills. Most of us never complain about the same. None of us will ever think twice about putting 16 hours a day at work if we are given a deadline. On the contrast, when things come to our relationships, we just want to be happy and satisfied. Just a little tension creates so much of a emotional scuffle to make us struggle about what will happen next? Our relationships are just a part of life. Just as we do work to make out talents utilized and earn enough to make our both ends meet. Similarly, we need relationships to be happy and feel satisfied. Good relationships give us inner strength and bad relationships just take it away. Coming to the matter of heart, it is our myopic thinking that to LOVE someone we need only to be good at heart and expect that everything else will turn out to be nice. Now, at this particular moment we are creating an expectation out of relationship that if everything is good today, it will be good forever. Just like business we cannot predict how the market is going to react after few years. It is possible that a booming business of today may become irrelevant and no longer exists after couple of years. Does it mean that businessman was wrong or did he chose the wrong business to be in? What would you think here. Again, most of us would say, "this happens"! If you look inside and see it in a similar way with your relationships, you cannot predict 100% about the behavior of other person. You just can't say that this person will be equally loving or caring after couple of years down the line. In some relationships we fail because other person is wrong and fails us... means doesn't live up to the expectations we have from other person. In other case, we don't live up to other persons expectations and it is we who fail the relationship. Sometimes, it also happens that someone close to us instigates us against other person and we start doing negative things in our relationship ultimately leading to a failure of relationship. No matter what the cause is, a failed relationship is always a learning experience. Likewise, we fail in business, start it again. and in relationship if we fail again, we start again. Because we are not living for anyone. We need a solid relationship in our lives to stay happy and satisfied. Once our basic fundamentals about life are clear we can go ahead and start a new relationship with someone whom we think has a potential to be loved and love us in return. Suffering is not always about god, it is about nature's way of teaching us about life. Man! this is called EXPERIENCE. Isn't it! Wish you find your answers soon. God bless ya :) Nice to hear from you after a long time. No wonder, you are still passing through the same struggle. You know had life been so easy we all could have been living happily forever. The life has its own twist and turns teaching us new ways of life. Some call it a reality and some call it truth. This learning keeps on happening on various levels and at various times. Sometimes, learning work is painful when we have to work hard day and night to learn the new skills. Most of us never complain about the same. None of us will ever think twice about putting 16 hours a day at work if we are given a deadline. On the contrast, when things come to our relationships, we just want to be happy and satisfied. Just a little tension creates so much of a emotional scuffle to make us struggle about what will happen next? Our relationships are just a part of life. Just as we do work to make out talents utilized and earn enough to make our both ends meet. Similarly, we need relationships to be happy and feel satisfied. Good relationships give us inner strength and bad relationships just take it away. Coming to the matter of heart, it is our myopic thinking that to LOVE someone we need only to be good at heart and expect that everything else will turn out to be nice. Now, at this particular moment we are creating an expectation out of relationship that if everything is good today, it will be good forever. Just like business we cannot predict how the market is going to react after few years. It is possible that a booming business of today may become irrelevant and no longer exists after couple of years. Does it mean that businessman was wrong or did he chose the wrong business to be in? What would you think here. Again, most of us would say, “this happens”! If you look inside and see it in a similar way with your relationships, you cannot predict 100% about the behavior of other person. You just can’t say that this person will be equally loving or caring after couple of years down the line. In some relationships we fail because other person is wrong and fails us… means doesn’t live up to the expectations we have from other person. In other case, we don’t live up to other persons expectations and it is we who fail the relationship. Sometimes, it also happens that someone close to us instigates us against other person and we start doing negative things in our relationship ultimately leading to a failure of relationship. No matter what the cause is, a failed relationship is always a learning experience. Likewise, we fail in business, start it again. and in relationship if we fail again, we start again. Because we are not living for anyone. We need a solid relationship in our lives to stay happy and satisfied. Once our basic fundamentals about life are clear we can go ahead and start a new relationship with someone whom we think has a potential to be loved and love us in return. Suffering is not always about god, it is about nature’s way of teaching us about life. Man! this is called EXPERIENCE. Isn’t it!

Wish you find your answers soon. God bless ya :)

]]> By: Gagan http://amitbhatia.in/2008/03/12/personal/had-life-been-so-easy/comment-page-1/#comment-108 Gagan Mon, 17 Mar 2008 17:49:31 +0000 http://amitbhatia.in/2008/03/12/personal/had-life-been-so-easy/#comment-108 Wow nice thoughts bro, you changed a lot, I don’t know about earlier but I have seen you as person dedicated towards work and in search of something new ways to breaking search engine  but your thoughts are changed well and its happened with me too  Well from last few months I was finding the answer to questions Who am I?, why I am doing this? Why Me? This has not taken 15 seconds or minutes still the search is on, somehow I am close to the answer, I just want to share with you. I don’t know I found it or not but I got the way to know the answer I collected my entire thoughts positive, negative to me and for me and seriously it was not a 1 minute game. Why? You have its answer “Today is a new day so thoughts are different” Yes! I started thinking over and over again, what exactly is running in my head and what my heart want. I asked many people who are close and not close to me, no matter how many people told me how nice and bad I am, pat my back or made me feel low, their answers never ever satisfied me because people can turn on you fast and hate you just as much as they say they love/like/need you. I realized I am different not for one, but for everyone, why I am like this? Yes not a big question! But apply the theory “think deeply” over again? I know you already have an answer but not everybody have the answer. Usually people give me the answer of this question that it’s a human nature, human has an individual personality, is it really a fact? No I do not agree with the thoughts, when a child takes birth he and his parents don’t know each other, by just caring and loving both of them starts thinking that this is my dear one. Why this happens with every child if the personality and nature is different of every person? What about pets? People love their pets so much they treat them like a child why? They are not even humans. What if a child has taken birth and is mentally retarded, Do we advice his parents do not take care of him or just leave him? No we’ll never think about this, because there is something in our soul which has not been taught to any one, in any school, in any way. I guess a word Love may be better word to define. But I think this word love is being vanished from this world, every one is thinking like a professional, so passing 100 years (As the power of thinking is daily getting stick to professional behavior) do we have only a professional relations with our own family? Well I’ll not live for this long period and I wish I don’t want to see this happening in a real world. Its funny and yes people give the answer very casually say that its just because of materialistic world, you’ll find more and more reasons but “think deeply” these answers will not satisfy, we need materials its necessity of our life without it we cannot move, but maintaining our mental level high is also a necessity for living From few months I see other people how great they are, what so special and what made them like this? And when I look at me I see nothing I keep on digging, digging and digging deep inside me, everyday I did this and I just founded useless thoughts, useless things moving around, useless scratches, untreated wounds. I got tired of this, I become motionless and helpless every day, when I see the wounds and scratches they made my tears to fall… I was not having power even to touch them cause it gives more pain, I started hating myself I have stopped finding the solutions for the problems, after days passed on I realized I am becoming a hollow men and I made a big mistake (hmm…real big) which still hurts me as well as my good people and I started finding why I have done this, as usual no satisfied answer was there I was more tired as I felt before, powerless, but this time I haven’t stopped my search cause its was something I have never expected from myself my mind, heart, body mouth was scolding me and my thoughts were countering of them and here I found the culprits in me!! MY THOUGHTS I realized and cleared my bad thoughts I made a box I started cleaning my mind, heart & soul the box is still lying in the deep dark I cannot able to see there anything instead of that box and most of the nights when I close my eyes I found that box is trying to whispers with me I listen deeply it annoy me I get afraid of the echo. Today is a brand new things happening around me which makes me happy and sad but I am not strong enough not to grab the wrong things, thoughts, relations I started running far but one day I’ll stand in front of them and blow them off. I tried every thing to relax my mind it was useless till the time I haven’t clear my thoughts, I heal my scratches and wounds I feel good don’t know why. And now I am in search of why me? people around me can see a dynamic change in my thoughts and personality, but fact is i am passing on few situations because I don't want to live for granted (Usually people live), if something unconditionally happens people usually say and blame it on their fait I am not God, and now do not believe in God but yes by knowing myself and by clearing my thoughts I feel like a God I have been having still feelings of emptiness I feel like this that there is something in me or in me that wants to come out something big... Wow nice thoughts bro, you changed a lot, I don’t know about earlier but I have seen you as person dedicated towards work and in search of something new ways to breaking search engine  but your thoughts are changed well and its happened with me too 
Well from last few months I was finding the answer to questions Who am I?, why I am doing this? Why Me? This has not taken 15 seconds or minutes still the search is on, somehow I am close to the answer, I just want to share with you.
I don’t know I found it or not but I got the way to know the answer I collected my entire thoughts positive, negative to me and for me and seriously it was not a 1 minute game. Why? You have its answer “Today is a new day so thoughts are different” Yes! I started thinking over and over again, what exactly is running in my head and what my heart want.
I asked many people who are close and not close to me, no matter how many people told me how nice and bad I am, pat my back or made me feel low, their answers never ever satisfied me because people can turn on you fast and hate you just as much as they say they love/like/need you.
I realized I am different not for one, but for everyone, why I am like this? Yes not a big question! But apply the theory “think deeply” over again? I know you already have an answer but not everybody have the answer. Usually people give me the answer of this question that it’s a human nature, human has an individual personality, is it really a fact?
No I do not agree with the thoughts, when a child takes birth he and his parents don’t know each other, by just caring and loving both of them starts thinking that this is my dear one. Why this happens with every child if the personality and nature is different of every person? What about pets? People love their pets so much they treat them like a child why? They are not even humans. What if a child has taken birth and is mentally retarded, Do we advice his parents do not take care of him or just leave him? No we’ll never think about this, because there is something in our soul which has not been taught to any one, in any school, in any way. I guess a word Love may be better word to define. But I think this word love is being vanished from this world, every one is thinking like a professional, so passing 100 years (As the power of thinking is daily getting stick to professional behavior) do we have only a professional relations with our own family?
Well I’ll not live for this long period and I wish I don’t want to see this happening in a real world. Its funny and yes people give the answer very casually say that its just because of materialistic world, you’ll find more and more reasons but “think deeply” these answers will not satisfy, we need materials its necessity of our life without it we cannot move, but maintaining our mental level high is also a necessity for living
From few months I see other people how great they are, what so special and what made them like this? And when I look at me I see nothing I keep on digging, digging and digging deep inside me, everyday I did this and I just founded useless thoughts, useless things moving around, useless scratches, untreated wounds. I got tired of this, I become motionless and helpless every day, when I see the wounds and scratches they made my tears to fall… I was not having power even to touch them cause it gives more pain, I started hating myself I have stopped finding the solutions for the problems, after days passed on I realized I am becoming a hollow men and I made a big mistake (hmm…real big) which still hurts me as well as my good people and I started finding why I have done this, as usual no satisfied answer was there I was more tired as I felt before, powerless, but this time I haven’t stopped my search cause its was something I have never expected from myself my mind, heart, body mouth was scolding me and my thoughts were countering of them and here I found the culprits in me!! MY THOUGHTS I realized and cleared my bad thoughts I made a box I started cleaning my mind, heart & soul the box is still lying in the deep dark I cannot able to see there anything instead of that box and most of the nights when I close my eyes I found that box is trying to whispers with me I listen deeply it annoy me I get afraid of the echo.
Today is a brand new things happening around me which makes me happy and sad but I am not strong enough not to grab the wrong things, thoughts, relations I started running far but one day I’ll stand in front of them and blow them off.

I tried every thing to relax my mind it was useless till the time I haven’t clear my thoughts, I heal my scratches and wounds I feel good don’t know why.
And now I am in search of why me?
people around me can see a dynamic change in my thoughts and personality, but fact is i am passing on few situations because I don’t want to live for granted (Usually people live), if something unconditionally happens people usually say and blame it on their fait
I am not God, and now do not believe in God but yes by knowing myself and by clearing my thoughts I feel like a God
I have been having still feelings of emptiness I feel like this that there is something in me or in me that wants to come out something big…

]]> By: Harnoor Dandona **Motu** http://amitbhatia.in/2008/03/12/personal/had-life-been-so-easy/comment-page-1/#comment-89 Harnoor Dandona **Motu** Fri, 14 Mar 2008 19:06:15 +0000 http://amitbhatia.in/2008/03/12/personal/had-life-been-so-easy/#comment-89 <p>Yo Bro</p> <p> nice to hear from you and what are you doing these days.My phone number is 098713****...ring me and please give me your number its been ages i had a word with you your old phone number does not work..</p> <p> take care n god bless<br /> Harnoor Dandona<br /> </p> Yo Bro

nice to hear from you and what are you doing these days.My phone number is 098713****…ring me and please give me your number its been ages i had a word with you your old phone number does not work..

take care n god bless
Harnoor Dandona

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